Please donate! Makes my dreams of motherhood possible
Organised by SARAH DEPASQUALE · August 22, 2025

Ever since I was a little girl playing house, I’ve dreamed of being a mom. Now, at 41, after a lot of soul-searching, I’ve decided to pursue that dream on my own. I know I can be a great single mother—I was raised by one. I’ve spent years in therapy healing from past traumas and breaking cycles so I can offer my child the loving, stable home I’ve always wanted. My journey hasn’t been easy. A few years ago, I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, and I had to leave my teaching career due to disability. There were moments I worried my dream of motherhood might slip away. But my hope never faded. I’ve dedicated my life to caring for children, working in early education and as a nanny. I know the challenges of raising a child on my own, but I also know my own strength. I’m a fighter, and I have so much love to give. The one hurdle I can’t overcome alone is the cost of IVF. After consulting closely with my doctors at CNY, we believe this is my best path to pregnancy. I don’t have a partner and have a hormone imbalance that’s I’ll need medication. Your support would directly fund the treatments I need to finally have a chance at becoming a mom. To anyone who donates, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. You’re helping turn a lifelong dream into reality. With your help, I can look forward to a future filled with the joy of motherhood—a future where I get to experience the good stuff, with my child by my side.
Updates
August 20, 2026
Please anyone help me I’m medically okay to do IVF I can’t find the money
I’m happy to announce I met with the neurosurgeon. I don’t need surgery the tumor isn’t currently causing any problems for me and it’s not anything to worry about I’m okay to do IVF and get pregnant. Please help me have my baby I’ve always wanted it’s not fair I can’t be a mom because I’m on disability.
August 12, 2026
MRI results
Went over my MRI results yesterday with my doctor my IVF had me to a mri because of my bloodwork. I had a microadenoma which is a small tumor on the base of my brain in the pituitary gland, I’m producing to much prolactin causing fertility issues. I was told we need to put a pause on IVF until the tumor is taken care of.
July 14, 2026
Trying my best
Money is the only thing holding me back. I’m applying for grants, I’m trying to find ways to make money but nothing seems to work out. I’m just going keep paying and believing. I know some day I’ll be a mom.
July 12, 2026
I’m praying
I’m sad I still at 41 don’t have a baby I’m sad because I see people donating to other couples but not me. Ok believe we are all worthy of donations I’m just saying I wish I was going more. I’m going to have a baby someday I believe God knows it’s my calling in life.
November 20, 2025
Rough times
Things are rough really thought I’d get more support than this. Adding 30 dollars someone donated in person.