Byles ivf journey

My name is neci and my husband is several older than me and has had a vasectomy. Iv had a consultation and was told that the cost would be the same to have a reversal and redo as ivf and that since he’s had the vasectomy for over 10 years that it would be more beneficial to do ivf. We’ve been tryin for several years to save up the money but it’s just not happening for us between lose of jobs and the Rona we can’t seem to catch a break and get back on our feet enough to save and our credit is shot so a loan is outta the question.